Classic, VIP and VIP Plus
GILF Dating Features: Your Tools for Meeting Older Women
Every account gets a full profile, match suggestions each day and a few messages to break the ice. VIP and VIP Plus are for blokes who'd rather chat without counting.
Get Flirting on a Classic Account
Sign up and you start on Classic, which is far more than a look through the shop window: there's a full profile with photos, the run of the profiles to browse, and fresh match suggestions each day.
Post status updates, comment, vote in polls and send a limited number of messages a day. Better still, when a VIP or VIP Plus member messages you, you can read it and reply on Classic, so a keen opener never goes begging.
Badges such as Verified, Chatterbox and Heartthrob are open to Classic members too, and our sign-up page covers joining.
Classic, VIP or VIP Plus: Pick Your Level
Each level keeps everything below it and piles more on top.
| What you get | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Profile, photos, browsing, match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Messages | A limited number a day | No limit | No limit, with priority |
| Reply to VIP and VIP Plus members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Filters: city, distance, experience, what someone is open to | No | Yes | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms, group chats of up to 50 | No | Yes | Yes |
| See who likes you, rewind passed profiles | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches, top of other members' match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Free ID check and profile badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Matches Worked Out Around Your Taste for Older Women
Your suggestions come from age range and gender preferences, the distance between you, how recently and how much people use the site, the kind of relationship they're after (casual and otherwise), lifestyle habits and interests.
So tell the site what you want. Set an age range that starts where your taste does, say so if you're after something casual, and tag a few of the 45 interests, such as Age Gap, Mature, Discreet Meets or Roleplay.
New to chasing older women? Start with our page on meeting GILFs, then the profile tips guide for photos, bio and that first message.
VIP Takes the Limit Off Your Messages
On VIP you message as many people as you like, as often as you like. The advanced filters let you narrow it to a city, a distance, an experience level and what someone's open to, which beats scrolling past people three hours away.
VIP opens the members-only chat rooms, plus private group chats that take up to 50 people. Pass on a profile too fast and you can rewind it, the people who like you are listed for you, and your comments sit nearer the top.
VIP Plus Puts You at the Front of the Queue
VIP Plus goes further: exclusive matches, your messages and likes placed ahead of the pack, and the top of other members' match stack each day. Two add-ons are on sale too: a boost that puts your profile in front of active members nearby, and Super Match, which highlights your message so the other person sees it first.
What each level costs is on our pricing page.
Show You're the Real Deal With a Verified Badge
Pass the free ID check and your profile wears the Verified badge. Rather not hand over documents? Video verification checks you live with a moderator instead.
Checks are optional, so a badge is worth looking for on anyone you're keen to meet, and worth having yourself. Blurred explicit images, warnings when someone drags the chat onto WhatsApp and the rest are on our safety page.
GILF Dating in Your Pocket
The site runs in the browser on any phone or computer, so there's nothing to install. Add it to your home screen and it sits there like an app, ready for a cheeky message on the bus.
A Bigger Pool Than One Site Alone
GILF Dating sits within a shared network of adult dating sites. Members of the other sites can see your profile, and theirs show up here for you to browse and message.
Got Questions About the Tools?
Can I send messages on a Classic account?
Yes, a limited number a day, and you can always answer VIP and VIP Plus members who write first. Messaging without a limit is a VIP thing.
What's the difference between VIP and VIP Plus?
VIP brings unlimited messages, filters, chat rooms, group chats, rewind and the list of who likes you. VIP Plus is about reach: its own pool of exclusive matches, your messages and likes jumping the queue, and pole position in other members' daily suggestions.
Can I search by city and distance?
Yes, on VIP, along with experience level and what someone is open to. On Classic, distance still counts towards the matches you're sent.
Who can see my profile?
GILF Dating members and members of the other network sites. All any of them get is your username and the town you're nearest to; your name, email and address are never on show.
Put the Tools to Work Tonight
Set an age range, tag what you're into and see who the site puts in front of you.
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